Blind Reflections | Alison Fordham

My Tribute To My Mom | A Blind Reflection By Alison Fordham

In 2016, my Mom lost her vision. First in one eye, and then the other. After endless appointments, testing, and waiting many months, she was diagnosed with LHON. She is one of the strongest women I know and has always been so independent. As expected, she has had some bumps in the road with this, but she is still determined to keep as much independence as she possibly can. My Dad and I have gone through the entire emotional roller coaster right beside her.

On one hand, I am angry that she is going through this at all. As with any disease, why does anyone have to experience this? When her vision started to go, she was nearing retirement. This was going to be her time to take a rest, enjoy amazing adventures, and watch my baby grow. On the other hand, I think of all the people that have been diagnosed with LHON at such young ages, who haven’t had the chance to enjoy life as much as my Mom has. There is no such thing as good timing for something so life-changing.

Picture of Alison's tattoo. It is an Intricate black illustration of a compass. In the middle Of the compass is an eye with long lashes. The compass is marked with Letters representing North, south, east, and west.
Alison’s Tattoo

I have been wanting to do something as a tribute to my Mom since this all began and today, I finally got my tattoo for her. My Mom has spent my whole life guiding me, and I am so thankful that I am able to be there now to guide her. ~ Alison’s Facebook post | 7/24/2018

Alison Fordham is 30 years old and lives in St. Thomas, Ontario. Her mom, Susan, was diagnosed with Lebers Hereditary Optic Neuropathy (LHON) in the summer of 2017.

4 Comments on “Blind Reflections | Alison Fordham

  1. Thank you for your post. The same thing happened to my husband as he neared retirement. All your comments are similar to what we’ve had to endure. He was near retirement age, however not ready quite then. Losing the ability to drive finished the picture. He’s done better than he thinks, but now, on top of the LHON, he needed heart surgery. While undergoing this the circulation to the optic nerves was badly impaired. One eye went totally blind and the other continues to deteriorate.
    I pray your mom doesn’t have to endure anything like this and your tribute to her is so beautiful. Stay close and keep supporting her as I know you will.
    Thanks again.

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    • Hi Kandy, thank you for the nice comment. I’m sorry to hear about your husband’s declining vision. Not easy for him, and not easy for you. Stay strong!! xo

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